Disrespect, lack of courtesy, manners etc is one of the main reasons why good relationships go awry.
When we love someone, or someone loves us, we think every thing is ok. But that’s not the case, we may not need to be formal to him, but still we should be respectful to him.
Love or affection should never be taken for granted, we should always keep in mind that our best friends or spouse deserve the best behaviour from us, because they mean a lot to us, and we should never lose a chance to show that.
We may not push him a chair before sitting ourselves or fetch him water in tray, but we cant look down upon him or make fun of him (if he is sensitive) or insult him (this I think in any case, even if he takes it sportingly we just cant insult a person if we call ourselves his friend).
I believe the more we care for a person, the more respectful we will be toward him. Squabble is something else, because the closer the relation is the greater are the possibilities of tiff. After all, we snap at people we feel safe with. We don’t go around quarrelling with strangers who will punch us promptly. But we should never cross the border between respect and insult.
Our elders often used to say, that a king cant be the friend of a pauper. There will be no respect in that relationship, the king will make and break his poor friend as per his pleasure or wrath.
This most probably explains the fact that a relationship without respect does not lasts for long. They must have been hinting toward the eternal truth, that the friendship between two too unequal persons can only bring pain. So, if one wants a relationship full of love and respect, one should choose his friends with care. Too much difference often hampers a relationship, because disrespect creeps in. And no relationship can last for long without mutual respect.
This is the beginning of third year of an existence I never imagined I will be living- being financially dependent on someone.
I am absolutely at my patience’s end and am hundred percent sincere about trying any genuine free lance job on writing, that is I write and you pay, I am not keen to hit jackpot, fair payment will be fine enough for me.
I will like to clearly tell the robbers looking for fools to dupe to keep off – this one is too experienced to fall for your traps. I have tried for years to get a genuine, fair paying home-based job; the last time I was duped was in 2008 by a phony medical transcription institute, it gobbled up 30000 rupee and almost an years hard work, left me really sick in guts. Well, I am ready to take chances again but no longer being fooled. So, if any literary agent thinks that my works are worth it, I won’t mind sharing profits with him/ her; the percentage or fees for services will be negotiable. But please, don’t ask me to get a membership first, speak in trustworthy language. Or, any genuine publisher, publishing agency can gladly contact me, I will consider paying the fees if I think the offer isgenuine and reasonable.
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